What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a basic type and fixed result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, always with respect for (mutual) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The result is typically a terrific physical, psychological well-being. Usually, the receiver is really unwinded, incredibly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Loving touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Full of attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not believe about yesterday or tomorrow. Do not browse or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. An extremely mindful touch from the heart. Get also extremely purposely, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the concern. Whatever takes place in the moment, completely consciousness, adoringly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or falling asleep is also not intended (still, when that's what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of massaging that is essential, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a very surprising course. Everything suits a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the primary step in an excellent advancement.
Ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a very long time, naturally, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually turned up on the planet of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both giver and receiver always must be guaranteed. Caring attunement constantly precedes.
Set clear boundaries in advance
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also totally okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received numerous tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no function besides self-realization: restoring the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally great, in some cases delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (intended at pleasure satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Relaxation is a crucial part of tantric massage, but of an entirely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are very exhausted), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is definitely not a therapy! It's a sort of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing results, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the short article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, but likewise psychologically).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Build in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", stay away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is needed! Once again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are disappointed when someone falls asleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No designated result. It useful reference is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear limits in advance. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can show up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery impact. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries concern the surface area. There may be a psychological release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more caring, you discover what it is like to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that gives a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a fantastic physical, mental wellness (of both).